I noted in a Facebook post that hospice nurses drilled my father and I with our parts in taking care of mom. Our days would be filled with counting sodium mg (3 grams per day max), liquids (no more than 1,500 ML per day), tactics on how to shoot saline into various tubes protruding from my mother's body, how to change dressings, and learning how to operate two different oxygen systems. Dad did panic once when he couldn't replace the cap correctly on mom's bile duct catheter, but he eventually got it. He also cooked most of the evening's dinner and I picked up a baked chicken at Kroger.
I don't know how many chickens we consumed during mom's illness and especially after she died, but that's a story in itself. I pray for all the chickens.
The man who brought the oxygen was entertaining. Dad had a great time talking with him. The parents had a gas fireplace, and the oxygen man was especially leery of that contraption, but dad promised they wouldn't turn it on while oxygen was in the room. We eventually stored the tanks in the corner of their master bedroom, and we "hid" the current oxygen tank in use behind the easy chair in the living room.
Now we waited for all the "contraptions" to arrive, including a hospital bed, shower chair, wheelchair, and walker. Mom was on cloud nine with all the attention, but when everyone left she became surly about the incoming items, especially the hospital bed. Dad insisted on it, though, because of all the conveniences it offered. Mom was insistent on where to place it. It would go into the living room, where anyone who visited could see it.
That hospital bed eventually became the center of attention.