I noted in a Facebook post that mom was "a little loopy" over the past 24 hours. I learned over time that when mom developed a fever, she became totally irrational and mean. Dad couldn't handle it, but I had some practice, as that's how she would treat me when I was a child when dad wasn't around. If you have questions about why I would help mom in the last stages of her life in light of this information, it was because I did it for dad. When mom ran a fever, he froze like a deer in headlights in the face of her behavior.
My mother was diagnosed with Stage IV Cholangiocarcinoma (bile duct cancer) in March, 2013. She died at home on June 7, 2014, with her husband and me by her side. This memoir is all about choosing to caregive my mother (and father at times) when I was probably my mother's least likely choice for caregiver. It's been a journey. Please join me.
09 January 2025
Another Source of Infection (with Fever)
Mom remained in the hospital on this day in 2014, as she still had a fever. We thought, initially, that her cellulitis contributed to her fever. But, her medical history since her diagnosis indicated that, perhaps, she required a new stent in her bile duct for bile removal, and that "guess" was correct.They changed her stent while she remained in bed, with hopes that she would return home within a few days. This was on a Thursday, so if she wasn't released by Friday or Saturday, we'd have to wait until Monday as the hospital didn't release patients on Sundays.
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